I have forgiven my ex-husband says Tonto Dikeh
The Nigerian actress, Tonto Dikeh in an interview with journalist, Dele Momodu on Sunday, 26, 2020, on the importance of forgiveness, reviewed that she has finally forgiven her ex-husband, Olakunle Churchill , for the sake of their child, King Andre.
Tonto went further to say that she has come to realize that forgiveness is not about the next person but about oneself
The journalist asked Tonto Dikeh about her attitude to forgiveness and vindictiveness, Tonto replied by saying “A man I love and respect always, talked to me about forgiveness and I have come to realize that forgiveness is not about the next person.
I know that forgivessness is not about the next person but the explanation I got recently really wowed me.
It says I have forgiven you not because you have to be forgiven, I have forgiven you because I do not want to put myself in a place of stagnation when it comes to growth, I do not want to put myself in a place of stagnation when it comes to love, i do not want to put myself in a place of warship, progressing, my career.
Forgiveness is a whole lot and I only just realized that the bible says that if we do not forgive, God cannot forgive us. All these things are in the bible but it never really made an impact to me until someone really explained it.
So today I would tell you that for me it comes really easy. I forgive alot but I just don’t like to get provoked by the things that you do after it. I think forgiveness is an essential for ones growth”.
Asked if there is anyone she would never forgive in her life, she said;
“As at this moment, there is nobody I have not forgiven as of today 26 July 2020.
As of today, there is nobody I hold a grudge on but there are people who I have forgiven but I would never have a relationship with again”.
Asked if she has forgiven her son’s father, she responded;
“Oh yes, especially him. I forgive him and wish him the best, for my son’s sake. I do. Why not?”
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Recall back that Tonto Dikeh got married to Olakunle Churchill in the year 2014 but they got divorced in the year 2017.
In the year 2019, Tonto Dikeh shared videos of her failed marriage with her ex spouse Olakunle Churchill, dragged him over his infidelity, low sexual performance, involving in internet fraud and also a ritualist
Olakunle Churchill on other hand, announced that he is suing Tonto Dikeh his ex wife for the sum of 500Million for general damages incurred by him due to the malicious and false publications